Very few people know this, but PR Girlz was actually a big part of my inspiration for wanting to become a public relations professional.
I’ve been reading PR Girlz now for more than 3 years. Somehow, I found this blog even long before I had any interest in social media or blogging. I Googled “women in PR” or something to that affect. This was back when I was in my 3rd year of Journalism at Ryerson and I was pretty certain that j-skool was not for me, so I decided to look around for information about other careers that might be of interest. Long story short – here I am.
What made me think about this?
A few weeks ago I had an encounter at a workshop I attended. There were about 12-15 of us sitting in an average sized boardroom. There were communications people from all types of organizations – agencies, non-profits, large corporations and clearly, from all levels of experience. It was a fairly informal presentation, but there were still speakers at the front who, like most presenters, hope that you’ll give them your full attention. Most of the audience obliged this un-written rule; however, there were a select few at the opposite end of the table who choose not to.
Two fellow ‘PR girls’ (although I’m hesitant to call them that – you’ll see why as you read on) felt the need to carry on a side conversation throughout much of the presentation. Now, in a room that small, whispering is very distracting. So much so, that everyone around the table made efforts to turn and glare at the culprits – which they appeared not to notice.
My reason for describing this example this that this is what I consider to be a very poor ‘PR Girl.’
Here’s why: These girls were representing their agency as attendees at the event, in a public space, in the presence of other fellow agencies and PR community members. Quite frankly, their behaviour was rude and disrespectful to everyone in the room. And what they did not seem to notice, is that everyone else noticed. Everyone in that room will now have a lasting impression of what that agency is like – did I mention we were all wearing name tags with our organizations printed on them?
All this really got me thinking about what it means to be a PR Girl. Never once in my reading of this blog did I ever get a sense that what I witnessed at the workshop, was part of being a successful PR Girl. So, here is what a PR Girl is to me:
1) Classy – Now I don’t mean that we all come to work every single day dressed to the nine’s like we stepped out of a fashion magazine. I mean that we are respectable in the way we present ourselves, in the office and in the community.
2) Smart – We are not the ditzy PR girls sometimes portrayed by Hollywood. I work with people who have Master’s degrees, undergrad degrees and many years worth of experience to back it up – there are no airheads around here.
3) Respectful – A good PR girl recognizes the value of building relationships and being respectful to everyone we cross paths with. This goes for the guy asking for change outside to subway, right up to the VP of a new client.
4) Friendly – We are not entitled. We are not snotty. We were personable and friendly. A hard-ass, uppity PR girl might get results for being pushy with media, but it won’t win any brownie points on the relationship building front.
5) Strong – We are classy, smart, respectful and friendly – but don’t think that means any one is going to push us around. We know our business, we love our business and we are good at what we do. And we know it.
So those are my thoughts about what a PR Girl really is.
Did I miss anything?